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A day in the life of….

A day in the life of who even? A single parent? A student? An aspiring social worker? Lol at this point I’m confused. I am all of the above and more.

Just trying to refill my ability to repeat myself some more
Operation take more pictures going ok I guess…….

An Input I got a lot, was to talk about my daily life a bit more… well there’s nothing interesting there tbh. My schedule is as follows

5:30 a.m: my alarm rings. But I don’t wake up until 6 lmao, please I can’t come and kill myself. We get ready and that consists of mainly me repeating myself and trying not to lose my shit at 6am in the morning.

I drop off the center of my universe at school and head to work. I work with kids. I know, somebody pinch me. I leave mine to go work with more. My day also mainly consists of me repeating myself and trying not to lose my shit the whole day because let’s face it, getting on your nerves is what these midgets do best.

I pick up the center of my universe at 4pm, you would think my day ends there, nope it doesn’t. It’s time for entertainment. That means spending some quality time. Either we chill outside some more because he has eaten, slept and gotten a snack at school, so of course he is energized, or we bake because somehow he has decided that baking is his new thing now. Whichever option he feels like doing, nothing is beneficial to me because who cares about me anyways as long as baby boy is living his best life.

We get home mostly around 6pm. The center of my universe has to eat, shower and prepare for bed. We pray then it’s probably around 8. I tuck him in. He doesn’t fall asleep immediately, he comes knocking at my door too many times because he can’t sleep since he napped in the afternoon. On some days I can’t be bothered and he succeeds in sleeping in my room, on other days like today, i don’t give two shits because why did I spend so much money furnishing your room my guy, you better go there and enjoy yourself.

Now where do I come into the picture, you may ask? Right now. It is currently 8:55pm. It is quiet. I haven’t eaten but I will. I’ve spent too much time on this couch rethinking and reconsidering all my life choices. I’ve journaled a little bit. I’m just going over my day in my head.

Work was hectic and on days like this, where I feel really exhausted, I cannot help but feel sorry for myself and focus on all the things that could have been had I done this or that differently. Yeah I know I’m just being ungrateful while also being human. I am so tired. I am struggling to believe in that Isaiah 41 I always tell people to read. But I’m gonna read it anyways. So yeah this is mainly what my day looks like. Ooh and I didn’t mention school because well I’m almost at the end and ain’t much to do there at the moment. I’m gonna find something to eat, shower and sleep because the cycle restarts tomorrow. Good night my lovelies.

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New Year, Redefined Me

Hi lovelies, is it too late to wish you happy new year? I suppose it is but I’ll do it anyways, Happy New Years my darlings, it’s been a hot minute hasn’t it. I hope all of you are well, I’ve been through a series of emotions, seasonal depression, sadness, numbness but also gratitude. A whole lot of things to be thankful for. Looking back at last year, I can boldly say it’s the first year in a long time that I was able to accomplish some goals that I had set out for at the beginning of the year. But you know how it goes with us humans, we’re ingrates. Something you’ve been praying for happens and instead of taking a few moments to soak it in, it’s on to the next forgetting that you’re always living in one of your prayer points.

Can we deep that for a second, you are literally always living in one of your prayer points, wether it be a roof over your head, food on your table, clothes on your back and a lot more specific prayers, you are always living in one of your prayer points.

Will it sound unambitious if I said that I have no set goals this year? At least not in the way that you may think. Yes I want to progress in life and have all the good stuff life has to offer career wise but this year I choose to focus on my personal life. I choose to focus on some of my character traits that need working on and trust me there’s a few. I’m not gonna start naming them here but it became very clear to me when I was speaking to a friend and a few days later I realized I had over shared. It wouldn’t have been a bad thing few years ago but I just realized that this particular friend just didn’t share as much with me anymore as they used to. They didn’t invite me to something that was a milestone in their life. It showed me that I had to stay in my lane and realize that a lot of my friendship dynamics had changed and it was ok. Friends don’t stay close forever. It showed me that I don’t have to overplay my role in people’s lives.

New focus unlocked: Take more pictures

Btw I made a story on my instagram asking “my followers” to give me some ideas on what to write about because let’s face it writers block is real (LOL am I even a writer!?) Trust and believe that post went right past every one, I kid you not, everyone you would think would jump on a train to support me. But even that is ok. I will not expect anything anymore and I say that in the most kindest and with most love in my heart.

If you do not support me the way that I support you or the way that I have supported you that is ok. I am learning to not feel entitled to my “friends” time, support, Information, life update….. whatever it is, name it. People can only share what they feel comfortable sharing. And with this said friend that I mentioned earlier I’ve also noticed that things we would normally freely talk about, now all of a sudden they are not comfortable sharing or whatever it is. And that is ok.

Notice how I’m saying a lot of that is ok, that’s because really and truly in life, the harsh truth is that you have no choice than to learn to be ok with how things turn out. Especially when you have no control over them. It is ok. It will be ok. You have to make sure you are always ok enough to function and go about your life. Put your life on do not disturb, just like I put my iPhone on DND all the time. Call back when need be, text back when need be. Reach out to important people in your life. Anything that’s not worth it shouldn’t and will not have my and your attention.

Lol I said I wouldn’t name what I’m working on and here I am still writing some down…..

Above all, I’m learning to stay calm. Control my emotions. Focus on what I can control while still telling some humans to fuck off, respectfully of course. Focus on me and my personal growth.

I think I digressed a little bit but as the year goes we’ll talk more and more about the things I shall be working on. We may touch on subjects that I consciously avoided writing about last year for various reasons. Although it’s a new year, the motto stays the same, Chin up and read Isaiah 41:10.

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My (Un)Popular Opinions: Sex Edition

Hello my loves, how have you all been? I’ve been good. Im alive, I guess that counts for something. Let’s talk sex today.

It’s always such a taboo topic. People always act like they don’t have it. Just saying the full term is awkward to some of you so lets say it together:

Sex sex sex sex sex sex. Now that we’ve gotten a bit more comfortable with the term lets get into it, shall we?

First of all, let me start by saying that this is a safe space. Ain’t nothing too awkward to talk about. Sex is natural. Just practice safe sex.

Now here are some of my controversial/unpopular opinions about sex with little to no explanations.

  1. Sex itself is very overrated.
  2. Doggystyle is definitely NOT the best position. It aint bad but the best?? C’mon now. what are you enjoying? His balls clapping your ass? And why do men always try put their whole weight on you?
  3. Toys definitely belong in the bedroom. Trust me that vibrator gon make you finish quicker than that man’s tongue or fingers. Plus why not just explore yourselves? It’s a good thing.
  4. Missionary is underrated.
  5. Dry humping is actually underrated.
  6. Sex in the shower? Really, that ish is dangerous. Don’t believe what the porn website told you
  7. Excessive talking is a turn off! All that dirty talk is fine in MODERATION, don’t talk too much baby, youre ruining the moment. Just moan in my ear, that’ll do the job even better

I would normally tell to read your bible but I don’t think this is the post for it, so see you next time loves.

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I Am (Not) Strong

I am very certain that people who commit suicide don’t unalive themselves because they don’t want to live. Staying alive, however, is pretty tough when the tunnel seems to be very dark, with no sign of any light at the end of it.

Nobody really talks about how difficult it is to stay running this marathon called life, because life surely ain’t no 100m sprint, it’s a marathon. A never ending one at that. You have to keep running until you take your last breath.

We glamorize the destination, and a lot of times minimize and dismiss the courage it takes to stay in the race.

Phrases like “you re so strong” or “you’re not alone”… I mean yes, I get it. But how do you explain to someone that its going to get better when everything is looking dark and there seems to be no way out.

I am not alone yet whenever I find myself in a dark cloud, I am always alone. Try reaching my generation through a phone call (myself included), its most likely not going to happen.

How do you explain to me that I am not a burden to you when each time I express myself, you dismiss me. You minimize my feelings and in the end, I regret ever wanting to open up to you in the first place.

“You are so strong” Bullshit. I am definitely not strong. I don’t even want to be at this point.

Am I strong or am I just holding on because I have child. The same child who drains me, is the same reason why I haven’t let go all these years.

I am not strong. I don’t want to be.

I have broken down way too many times than I can count just in the space of one week yet no avenue to let it out because the same people who assure you, they’re there for you are the same people who desert you when the going gets tough, suddenly you find out you are the only tough one who keeps going.

No, I am not strong, and I really do not want to be. At this point.  

I had a major meltdown. Sweaty palm, shaky hands, heart beating fast. BP rising, shaky legs, couldn’t stay still, just pacing around my apartment. Almost the whole night.

When all the tears had dried up and I finally summoned the courage to look at my reflection in the mirror, I asked myself, is it worth it. I mean being alive is becoming quite expensive.

No. I am not strong. And I really do not want to be. At this point.

I am a delicate flower and I want to be treated like an egg. An egg that can break at any point so please be gentle with me.

I am expected to wake up in less than 6 hours, put a smile on my face and function. And of course, I will function because that is what it takes to stay running this race. I will function because I cannot afford to not function.

I would tell you to read Isaiah 41:10 but I haven’t read it in a while. Maybe I should, and so should you.

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Love Love Love Part 2

Hi lovelies, it’s been a hot minute. Hope you all are doing just fine.

You know how sometimes you aren’t happy but you’re also not unhappy, you’re just existing in between and just taking it as it comes…. Yeah, that has been me….

Lmao, who am I kidding, I’ve been stressed with a lot of necessary and unnecessary things and therefore I keep pouring from an almost empty cup. I recently found out that my dad has been trying to get a hold of me…don’t really know how to feel about that…

I should be sleeping. Its 2:48a.m, I haven’t gotten much sleep the whole week. However instead of sleeping, I let someone’s words and actions make me feel as though I was difficult to love…I’ve been in this position a few times in my life. But we love love around here so here are a few reminders, for you and me, of what love may look like.

love is a verb, hence it always requires action.

Sometimes love is as simple as just paying attention to the one in front of you

It’s in the genuine “text me when you get home”.

It’s in the “naah I can’t do the other person like this”.

It’s in the “I got you”.

It’s in the “Hey I’m just a little busy/occupied right now, I’ll text back as soon as I can”.

It’s in the “I know you’ve been feeling a little down lately, let me run you a bath”.

It’s in the “good morning beautiful, good morning handsome” text message.

It’s in the random “Hey I’m just thinking about you, what are you up”.

It’s in the “I remember you liked these, so I got them for you”.

It’s in the “Hey I booked us a table and a ticket to go watch something”.

It’s in the “I thought I’d cook us some food and we watch Netflix”.

It’s in the “Tell me everything about your day”.

It’s in the “What can I do to make you feel better”.

It’s in the random meme, picture, voice not and song that was sent.

It’s in the hug that lasted a little bit longer.

It’s in the comfortable silence.

It’s in the nonverbal thoughtful gesture.

It’s in the long train/bus/car/plane ride just to see you.

It’s in the updates while hanging out with friends individually.

It’s in the laughter.

It’s in the sadness.

It’s in the tears.

It’s in the compliments.

It’s in the dates at a fancy restaurant.

It’s in the dates at a diner.

It’s in the cuddles.

It’s in the trust.

It’s in the safety.

It’s in the genuine apology.

It’s in the forgiveness.

It’s in the healthy misunderstandings.

It’s in the respected boundaries.

It’s in the priorities.

It’s in the appreciation.

It’s in the vulnerability.

It’s in the reciprocity.

It’s in the friendship.

It’s in the honesty.

It’s in the prayers.

It’s in the transparency.

It’s in the accountability.

It’s in the mutual respect.

It’s in the “I may not understand what you’re going through, but you will not go through it alone”.

Its in every gesture that’s deemed little or/and insignificant because those are the ones that matter most.

I don’t know what love is, but I want to believe that some of these points make up a big part of it. It may be expressed differently depending on the person and the situation but the core value remains the same.

Make sure to chin up and read Isaiah 41:10.

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Green Flags

Hi my lovelies, I hope you all are having an amazing weekend wherever you are.

This post is short and sweet, as the overthinker that I am, and considering what ive been through in life, I don’t believe anybody. I am, unfortunately not the type of person who sees the best in people, I actually expect the worst from the onset and its actually surprising when people show that they are good.

However I am also a hopeless romantic. Contradictive right? Now imagine how my love life would look like…….  I promise I am working on my trust issues, because believe I have lots of them (for proven reasons tho!)

Its easy to talk about red flags right, I for one belong to the school of thought that men are trash (but so are women) but these past few weeks I’ve been feeling very lovey dovey. I watch couples post their romantic videos and I enjoy the moment for them and hope it’s the same behind the lenses

So today, lets talk green flags!

DISCLAIMER: This post only concerns good women who match their men’s energy. All of you who only give your men boxers and singlet, please do me a favor, go and work on yourself and spoil that man sis. He deserves it.

Green flag 1: When he’s kind. When he treats people, especially those who don’t serve him, with pure respect and kindness. Huge!

2. When he’s thoughtful. Different people exhibit these qualities differently so there’s no manual for these things right but imagine a man being like I was listening to this song and thought of you and actually sends it, that’s a love language on its own. When hes out and about or can’t come to the phone, you get that little hey I’m just busy right now, ill call you later, instead of just ignoring you till he feels ready to speak…. When he checks up on you when hes out with his friends, you get that little hey mama how you doing, how’s your day going…. Listen, I could go on and on

3. When he’s proactive…. To me this is also a love language on its own. I saw this needed to be built, I can be of help, I knew you were arriving at this time so I made food, or I ordered food.

When he plans the date without waiting for you hint that he hasn’t taken you out in a hot minute?

When he’s proactive about developing your relationship, whether it’s starting the conversation first about something he didn’t appreciate or booking a trip, or just little things like letting you know when his plans have changed without you coming across as a nag because he understands that it’s the little, meaningless things that actually matter.

4. When he listens and implements (to the best of his abilities). This right here. Effort is so sexy. Effort is so romantic and most times it’s the thought that really counts. Imagine you mentioning something in a casual conversation, and he goes ahead and plans whatever you wanted. It could be as little as doing things around the house or you wanting to be treated a certain way or you expressing discomfort about something. It could be anything, but he listened and he didn’t wait for you to nag about it because that’s what men describe as nagging, when they have to hear the same thing over and over again. You could just want something to change but all they hear is criticism. But don’t we all want our romantic relationships to work?

Aren’t we both responsible for fixing it and making sure we both feel prioritized in each other’s lives? And once again, it could be the smallest things but what’s small to one person may be a big deal to the other person.

Another important aspect in this is when a person recognizes your silence and listens. Silence sometimes speaks volume. Don’t always assume the other person is angry or giving an attitude. Most times, in my case, baby one text saying Mama what’s wrong, I’ll probably start crying because I may just be exhausted by everything. An “I love you” text would probably make me blush from ear to ear and when you really don’t know the way forward, just ask what the problem is and what you can do to make your person feel better. Active listening is a necessity for a healthy long-term relationship.

5 When he’s empathetic. A man who has the ability to recognize when you feel a certain type of way, he may not necessarily identify with those emotions, but when he has the ability to recognize when you need love and actually gives you some reassurance AAAAAH Attractive AF

When he shows compassion in situations like that and makes you feel validated…MY GOD.

As usual, I am a woman so I speak on what women may need. However, if your man is doing all these things SIS you better treat that man like the king that he is. Contrary to what men believe, women are submissive by nature (my opinion!) but a woman can only tap into her feminine side when she feels secure and safe in her relationship.

What one woman needs may not be what the next woman needs but trust me when I say, when a man makes a woman feel secure, watch your relationship flourish like never before.

When we talk about men being providers and protectors, we always refer to financial security and if he can fight.

But are you providing her with emotional security?

Are you providing reassurance once in a while?

Do you make her feel safe to love you?

I am naturally an overthinker, but I have never overthought a situation if I didn’t have reasons to. So, are your actions protecting her from that?

A woman was created to be loved, are you loving her the right way? Because if you are then watch her give you all the respect and love that you need and more.

Its so many green flags to go through but for now chin up and read Isaiah 41:10. ooh and I lied, I thought it would be short and sweet but i got carried away.

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Stop Expecting You From Them

One of the best pieces of advice we all can learn from is to stop expecting You from Them.

Let’s let that sink in. It may not always be easy because as humans we love and the good ones treat you a certain way and expect the same treatment back, I know I have and then you get disappointed because you are thinking, I would have never done you like that.

People will not show up for you the same way you show up for them.

People will not have the same level of loyalty to you as you may have to them.

Especially in relationships, things that may seem important to you, just may not be as important to the other person and just because when it comes to them you show interest, doesn’t mean they will have the same level of commitment when it comes to you.

Just because you are consistent, supportive and you are willing to do certain things, does not mean you will be met with the same level of intention and effort. And that is ok because you are not them and they are not you!

People also have freedom of choice. Sometimes they may be unwilling and sometimes they lack the capacity. Either way you have to recognize that just because you show up a certain way for people, does not mean they will show up in the exact way for you. You are not them and they are not you.

Chin up and read Isaiah 41:10.

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The Great Dad Vs. The Average Mom.

Happy Mother’s Day to only the beautiful, involved, supportive, present, healthy, positive mothers, single mothers, stepmothers, mother figures, and bonus mothers. Hell happy Mother’s Day to the single fathers who have their kids most of the time and do all the work, they are being mommy and daddy at the same time right?

Before we get into this post, here’s a disclaimer:

I acknowledge that not all dads are deadbeats.

I acknowledge that there are some great, involved, and present fathers out there.

I acknowledge that there are women who keep fathers away from their children.

I acknowledge that women also abandon their children. I am in no way against men or fathers. In fact, it’s the opposite. I love men and I love seeing fathers fully committed to their children.

However, this post is about the double standards women/mothers face in our society…

Don’t you guys find it interesting that what makes a great dad, is usually what’s considered the average mom? Let that sink in…

Why do we criticize the single mother for staying, instead of criticizing the man who impregnated her and left her with all the responsibilities of raising a child on her own? Didn’t it take two to tango anymore? I am extremely confused.

I hear people always saying oh well it’s the woman who must do this, it’s the woman’s job to protect herself since its her life is going to change blablabla, all valid points… However, if you’re old enough to lay there naked in between a woman’s legs, then you’re old enough to carry your responsibilities, don’t you think? If he didn’t want kids, then he should have kept it in his pants. Sorry did you miss the part where protection is never 100% solid?

It is expected of the woman give birth, nurture these kids, keep the household in check, make sure her man is emotionally and sexually satisfied because if she doesn’t, he’s gonna look outside. Keep herself sexy for her man because once again let’s remember that MEN are visual beings and its very important that we give up our entire existence to keep them. But while she’s doing all these things, she also must go to work and pay half the bills because you know what, what else do you bring to the table woman if you ain’t helping to pay the bills? But hey her educational background should not be too high because men don’t like the competition. After all, he is the head of the home.

Have you ever heard someone ask a man how he juggles a wife and kids and still manages to work? I haven’t either.

Have you ever heard someone ask a man in a bar where he left his kids?

Why does putting my child’s father on child support make me money hungry? Isn’t it his responsibility to contribute to the child’s welfare just as it is mine? I’m sorry, I am extremely confused.

Why is a father doing his fatherly duties considered great? Once more, I am extremely confused.

Some fathers really say rubbish like “babysitting my kids”. I’m sorry, do you not know the definition of a “dad”? are you an illiterate? Do you need me to break it down for you?

I have been called damaged good. Has anyone ever called a single father damaged good? Actually, they are considered cute and responsible because they are sooooo involved and they stayed.

Should the single dad not have known that the person he’s having a baby with was trash? Didn’t she show the signs? He should have definitely known better! Afterall the woman clearly said she didn’t want a baby so why lay with her? And who cares if he was once married and is now a widower perhaps? Still should have known better.

How often does a man, in a two-parent household, have to meticulously plan ahead of time because he needs to find a babysitter?

We speak so much about single mothers but actually, it is the person who left that’s responsible for the child not growing in a two-parent household. Isn’t it questionable that most single parent household consists of just the mother? Don’t you find that suspicious that that’s the norm? men raised by single mothers, grow up to create more single parent household and we bash single mothers, yet a single father is responsible.

So, here’s a guide on how to be a great dad:

  • Be present
  • Provide for them
  • Babysit them occasionally.
  • Feed them.
  • Play with them.
  • Once in a blue moon, take them out. Don’t forget to post on social media to let the world know.
  • Pay your child support. If you don’t feel like it, you don’t have to. After all she’s just using your money to live life. And its also her responsibility to make sure them kids are tight.

A guide on how to be an average mother:

  • Be present. You chose to have them kids.
  • Provide for them. It is your responsibility.
  • Take care of your kids. In this case, it’s not babysitting.
  • Feed them. Don’t forget to cook for that grown man as well.
  • Play with them. I mean, what have you been doing the whole day?
  • Take them kids out. They need fresh air, and their minds need stimulation. No need to post. Nothing to see there.
  • If you aren’t together with your baby daddy… sorry child’s father… do not put him on child support. It is your sole responsibility to make sure them kids, that you chose to have, are taken care of. Besides why so money hungry? Can you not see that you have so much support around you? What do you need the money for?

Once more, Happy Mother’s Day to all you average moms out there. Enjoy your day. Be chinning up and continue reading Isaiah 41:10.

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My Trauma Response

Has anyone been through something so traumatic, it shaped your whole character??

You guessed it; we all have right. I was recently told that I do not let people talk. And that was an accurate statement.

Up until the age of 12, I grew up in a very loving environment. I was loved, I felt heard, I felt seen, every positive thing you can think of.

Then I moved to an environment, where suddenly, I was being silenced. An environment, where I was meant to be seen and not heard. An environment, where I dared not have an opinion and certainly not voice it. I was to be seen when I was needed to run an errand or do chores. I was to accept whatever doctrine that was passed down to me. I was to accept whatever profession that was chosen for me. Whatever punishment that was given to me without being able to defend myself.

And you never know how your childhood shapes you, until you are forced to face these things in whatever relationship you find yourself in, especially romantic ones.

Recently I was told, I don’t let people talk in an argument. Furthermore, that it was my tactic. And I had to pause for a moment.

I recognize that I actually don’t. However, it is not a tactic. I don’t do it intentionally.

I had been accustomed to not feeling seen and heard that now I feel the need to explain myself repeatedly because I never feel understood. Now whether or not the other person is understanding my point is irrelevant in this situation. I have put in my head that this person does not understand what I am saying and therefore I must repeat myself until I feel heard.

This attribute does however the exact opposite of what I’m intending. Regardless of how often I try to get my point across, my partner only understands criticism and I leave the impression that I’m pointing a finger at my partner’s wrongdoing when in essence it’s not my intention. But we don’t always see people’s intentions, it’s the actions that we see.

Irrespective of the situation, my instant trauma response is to either overcompensate or to shut down, both go into the extreme, there’s no between. Its not always healthy. Do I want to work on it? Yes. Do I succeed all the time? Definitely Not. But we move and keep on working on these negative traits. After all, aren’t we all a work in progress???

The first step is to recognize that these character traits exist and work on deconstructing them step by step. How, you may ask, I have no idea. when i figure it out, I promise to share.

Maybe we can talk about another trauma response of mine next time? Until then, chin up and read Isaiah 41:10.

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Motherhood part 2

I had a good cry last night. I don’t mean a tear was rolling down my cheeks, nah I mean bawling my eyes out. My son turned 4. A whole 48 months in this world. What can I say….my heart is heavy with memories and emotions.

Emotions I wish I could let out occasionally, but instead they stay built up because maybe there’s nobody to talk to, maybe there’s nobody who ’il understand, maybe everyone is busy, maybe I’m also just too emotional, a lot of maybes…the point is, these emotions build up over time until something happens, whether good or bad, that makes me reach this breaking point.

Single motherhood, I’m saying motherhood because I’m not a dad, I don’t know what single fathers feel,

However single motherhood can get lonely sometimes. Whether you chose it, or it chose you, at some point, especially if you’re like me and don’t have real support from family,

You will reach that breaking point more times than you may want to admit.

Some days are better and all it takes is me hiding in the toilet for a few minutes and some days are like this, where I question my entire motherhood journey and wonder if I’m even doing enough…

I mean I know its all in my head and I know I can’t do more than my best, which I believe I am, but there’s still that part of me that wants to do offer him so much more. I am also very aware that most of the things I stress about are material things, but I can’t help but stress about them

I wish I could have been able to give him a lavish birthday, now does he need it, probably not

These complexities have more to do with me than him. I wonder if people see me as a mediocre mother because I’m not financially stable and I don’t want that

I don’t want him growing up lacking anything at all….

My insecurities, complexities and struggle have a lot to do with me navigating between being a good mother, a good student, wanting to not just offer my kid a better life but also myself, (a girl’s got expensive taste ok!).

I don’t know what someone else may be struggling with but at the end we all must believe that in the end everything will work out for our good. Is it a business, is It money, are you battling with your mental health…whatever it is, I urge you not to give up. As long as you’re doing your best, everything else will eventually fall into place.

One may wonder why I do these obvious reminders…that is because no matter what someone may feel, you’re never alone

Someone else is feeling the same way or even worse and I speak from experience when I say, that sometimes hearing these reassurances said out loud by someone else goes a long way

So here you go… these reminders are for all of us.

  1. You are doing great
  2. You are not alone
  3. You should be proud of yourself for surviving all your bad days
  4. I cannot say this enough, but you are enough!
  5. Don’t forget to pray.

Now chin up and continue reading Isaiah 41:10.