Minding the business that pays you is free.

I will never, ever understand why women love to tear their fellow women apart! Like do you not have better things to do than to criticize your fellow woman?

I saw a post on Instagram this week, where a woman took the liberty to message another woman about how she should have not gotten pregnant while having a young child. Wait ! as what? Where do people get the AUDACITY from?

Women be out here knocking off patriarchy but still be the ones holding it up high. Women get criticized by fellow women when their partners cheat?

You hear nonsense like what did you do? If you were doing this, he would not have looked out, if you do not give your husband a child by then, he will start looking outside,

If you employ a housekeeper, you are lazy.

You cannot cook and clean, you are not wife material.

You do not own a business and aren’t working or a stay-at-home mum, well a woman must have something going on for herself.

You go to work, start a business, and employ a nanny, she should spend time raising her kids.

A woman in her mid 30s, not married and no kids, ooh here come the talk about a woman’s biological clock ticking and how a woman has to get married in her prime because a man can always father a child in his old age and still get younger girls.

A woman in her 20s, a child and not married, well how dare you have a baby for a man whom you are not married to because well now you are just secondhand baggage.

A woman in her mid 50s not married and no children, damn she should have at least had some kids, at least then she would not have to be alone now.

A married woman with a 5 year old daughter, you need to give your husband a son so his name continues

A woman with no kids, no intentions of either having kids or getting married, well damn how dare you not want kids. Such a tragedy. Did you not know that as a woman your fulfillment can only come from popping some babies to this world? How dare you ignore the bible verse where the Lord said, go into the world and multiply. You are a disgrace to womanhood. Now go pop some babies.

A woman stays after her man cheats, pfffff she is dumb, I would never do that. She leaves, damn men are scarce out here, it is just a little cheating, I am sure she wasn’t doing it like the side chick. At least she had a man.

I get asked when I’m going to get a second baby by people who are either my age mates or even older and they ain’t even got babies of their own.

When you gon prove to me that YOU are woman enough sis, since that’s the standard we are measuring womanhood by? I have proven that I have a womb, why don’t you go pop your baby? Does your uterus even function? But if I say that I’m rude right? Mind your womb sister! Minding your business is free.

Do people really think that women do not know about their so called “biological clock”? You think I am not aware that I am getting older?

I get that it is not malicious all the time and some people do not realize the effect it has. Maybe I cannot have kids, maybe the next woman has fertility issues, miscarriages…. All these are topics women do not really share. Not every woman desires to have kids or get married. It is not an achievement. Being MRS somebody is not by force please.

Women get criticized all the time, by everybody and it pisses me off when it comes from women because are you not a woman? Are you not meant to be your sister’s keeper? Did you also ignore the part where the Lord said be your brother’s keeper? Ooh you thought it was just for the fellas?

I am actually getting even more annoyed as I type this. So, I am just going to leave it at this. Go mind your own womb sis, mind your own biological clock. As you are at it, don’t forget to chin up and read Isaiah 41:10.